Me
I love to laugh more than anything. If I could spend my last hour on this earth doing anything, it would be spening time with my friends and family because they are very important to me. I love surprises even if they are the bad kind... I think it just makes the good ones so much better. I see the glass as half full. The first thing I notice on a guy is his smile because a I think smiles are the light of someone's soul. I have a list of things to do before I die. I like the smell of the river in the morning and I'll take it even if it means no bathroom and touching the side of the tent covered in dew in the morning. I know there is more to attraction than looks (but it is a factor) and someone can't force attraction and it is one of the most important things in a realtionship. I have been in a few relationships and now I know more than ever what really matters and I know exactly what I want. I am and honest and caring person who couldn't think of hurting anyone. I have a son and he is my everything and I wouldn't trade him for the world.

What I want
I want a guy who makes me smile with a thought, someone who knows when I am scared and doesn't make fun of me for it, someone who knows I can take care of myself, but he does it because he can and he wants to, I want someone who holds my hand, someone who may or may not be good at something but does it because it makes me happy, someone who can sleep next to me even if I snore or put my cold feet on him, I want someone who appreciates that I make him dinner or do his laundry or packing his lunch with a special note to brighten his day. someone who will help me make the bed. someone who isn't afraid to ask for help. someone who likes to talk and listen and lighten the mood with a joke. someone who knows that life is too short to be unhappy and that you need to make the most of it.

Narrowing it down
The last thing I want to do is waste anyone's time, so here are some specifics on what I am not looking for.
I am NOT that kind of girl, so if that's what you are looking for please move on. I will not reply to any
I am not looking for someone who does drugs or is a heavy drinker. smoking is a con, but if you are willing to quit I'd be glad to help.
I need to feel safe in a relationship.
I need someone who is planning on getting somewhere in life, I have goals and ambition and I need to be with someone that I can support and they can support me.
If you have communication problems and you don't want to improve, please don't bother.
If you are a cheater or a liar, please don't bother. I need a real man.


I know getting up the nerve to message someone or thinking up what to say is difficult... so please unless anything said above cancels you out, just try. What's the worst that could happen? The worst is you could not be "the one" (which is what I am looking for). If you think about it you have a better chance of winning the lottery or getting struck by lightening than being "the one". Don't worry about the subject line, I will read it either way, I promise and I always do what I say I will. Content is all that really matters, so for that, please avoid the one liners. Tell me about yourself, something your profile doesn't say. Say why I caught your eye, what you do for a living, some goals   Send me a message!

Profession: Customer service rep/sales and marketing
Interests:  music, reading, writing, camping, movies, photography