I am a woman who has been widowed for 8 yrs., im alone not lonely.. Would like to see if there isnt someone who I can once again connect with, someone to spend time with & enjoy life with.

My interests & friends are like me, a nice variety. Music from rock & roll to classical, leaving out rap & country, going to a movie, shows, festivals, eating steamed crabs with friends are just some of the things i enjoy doing...

Closed the business at my farm, which is in preservation, but still the care taker of it, which gives me the opportunity to be outside, have my hands in the dirt & just enjoy the serenity of the land.. Love the water, on it, in it or besides it ...Enjoy traveling, around the states or out of the country & would like to do this with someone as it is that more enjoyable..

Love the smell & warmth from my wood stove during cold months, & yes i split my own firewood. love seeing the sun come up in the morning & going down in the evening. Life is about trying new things & living it to fullest each day, always being open to the possibilites. Live my life by keeping things simple.

I'm a pretty straight forward type person who is secure spiritually, mentally, emotionally & financially. Looking for same in the man im with.

I can stand on my own two feet & take care of myself..sorry im not the submisive type, dont know anyone who has been a caregiver for someone as long as I was that would call themselves that..but saying that doesnt mean that I dont like to have a man do things for me when I can... actually that would be rather nice for a change.

Looking for that person who likes doing different things & yet can enjoy staying home. Open minded, easy going, non-judgemental & honest are all pluses. Someone who likes to hold hands, cuddle, still enjoys being physically close & yet can be happy doing nothing but sitting on a porch watching the world go by....Believe in standing side by side with the person im with and that friendship is as necessary to a relationship as love, you need both to get you through the rough times. Would like to find someone who wants to start off slow & see where things go, someone who wants to put the effort into making a relationship so that it can hopefully blossom into a long term relationship if not then someone to just enjoy being with. Please no smokers   Send me a message!

Profession: Retired
Interests:  travel, gardening, swimming, movies, theatre, water, being outside, alternative medicine, museums, fishing