I am a very romantic, passionate, friendly guy serious about committment and seeking a lady to enjoy life with. Distance and age don't concern me. I've lived all over the country and I love to travel. I love being near water, being in the sun, snuggling with someone special, holding hands and sharing my intermost feelings with those close to me. I love to kiss and be intimate. I am neat, clean and organized. I love to cook, clean and do handyman work around the house. I am a little hard to get to know but once I let you in you'll have a friend and love for life.



It's only fair that I share what I am and am NOT interested in, right?

If you have some resentment towards men in general I will probably not respond well to you, remember that IS what I am. If you think that all guys have "screwed you over" in the past then, you've been dating the wrong ones, not my fault!. If you think all guys are the same you've probably been dating the same guy your entire life, he just takes shape in different bodies.(Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.) If you think you "need" a man, maybe you do, just not this one! If you think that having money or a man that does will somehow create a "perfect and enchanted life" for you then, you should be a fairy tale author. If you are esteemed and confident in yourself without arrogance but with humility then we may have something in common. If you need a dictionary to read my profile we won't get far. If your profile consists of two sentences, your either not serious about meeting someone or you don't value yourself enough to elaborate upon your character. If you believe that there is a "Mr. Right" or "Mr. Perfect" out there for you, you are mistaken. NOBODY has that name!!! The perfect relationship is tended to, mended on when needed, laughed over, cryed over, disappointing at times, hard work, tiresome, methodical, challenging, critical, and never stops asking for MORE! If words like honesty, integrity, respect, compassion, empathy, desire, happiness, FOREVER, tanacity, strength, will, stamina, perserverance, hope, faith and love are synonymous with your perception of a good, healthy, meaningful relationship then, we would get along great! I loved to be challenged, if you can teach me something or show me something new I will enjoy being with you. If you can hold an intelligent conversation and intrigue me you'll have my undivided attention. If want someone to laugh at and with, I am often doing something to make an a** of myself! It's not a cry for attention, just part of my "don't give-a-sh*t what people think of me" attitude. If you're not comfortable being by yourself or alone then you're probably not ready for a serious relationship. If you think you need time to "work on yourself" you're probably right. You have to get yourself "right" so your not going around screwing everyone elses life up!
If you're not certain what you are looking for or what you want, you probably don't have a clue and need to figure that out before you pursue a relationship. I have found that if you are certain of what you want and simply ask for it, it eventually comes your way. If you obsess over inanimate objects and materials then they will be your closest relationship(s). If you like to go out and party and get shi*t-faced every weekend, I won't be impressed. There's just something about women who get drunk, show their breasts, hang on every guy, fall down, and puke all over the place that really turns me off. A little dignity goes a long ways!! Not to be too superficial, but I prefer women that are compatible with my body type. Working out, excercise, jogging, swimming, and keeping ones body in healthy working order is a BIG turn on for me!!

If this has seemed a little abrasive I apologize! I just simply know what I'm looking for and how to get it. If you have some or all of the beliefs and perspectives I have listed I would love to entertain a conversation with you.

I am looking forward to hearing from you. Good Luck and may God Bless you!   Send me a message!

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