Was married for 23+ years but one day it just ended. I didn't even see it coming but it did. Been seperated for a year and a couple of months and divorce is in progress now (she filed for it). It ended because as she said she never loved me but married me because her parents wanted her to get married and have children. If I had to do it all over again I would still have married her because I loved her so to me the marriage was one of Love, not because parents thought she should marry and have children. I haven't dated anyone since the seperation but since she filed the divorce papers and she has been dating for a long time it is time to move on with my life. It never felt right to date or even look for someone to date because I felt like I would have dishonored our marriage vows (though apparently she never honored them). I wish her well and hope she finds whatever it is I couldn't give her but it is now time for me to find some happiness. I am looking for dating and a relationship and no phonies. Someone who is honest. We may date and like each other and we may not and if so be honest about it and say it was nice to meet you BUT. I would appreciate that rather then "sure we will date again" then phone calls are not answered or returned. Just be yourself. I will do my best to make you happy. I am not desperate but I do want someone in my life now as I move onto this new chapter of my life. So if interested you can email me and ask any questions you want and I will answer them all. Hope to hear from someone out there who wants someone that will care for them and let them know they are special.   Send me a message!

Profession: retired/disabled
Interests:  music, writing, reading, internet games, walks, sports (mets and GIANTS)