looking for a nice girl that has a good heart and has the inner beauty as well as outter....with inner being more important! i was raised by a very liberated mother, who taught me respect for women as well as the career woman that she was. to me it is second nature, as i was raised by the best....(sure did drive the old man nutz, however, as he was old school.) in retrospect, i have the greatest respect and i imulate my mother in raising my son....as she did me.....im glad i have a good memory. she acted in capacity as both father and mother to me...being the strength of the family.....and in raising my son for the past 6 yrs alone, i have definitely benefited. sometimes you dont know what you have, till they have past away....and then, when you go out to look for that someone special....you do know exactly what you need.
when i say i do not want more children, that doesn't mean yours.....im very child oriented. my house is a toy house. we finally did buy living room furniture, as the electric train had taken over. toys still rule....and they are not all jake's...my son.

i think i am looking for my very best friend...

I want to get to know you. I want to feel you are as important to me as I am to you. I don't want to use the term ''chemistry'', as that sounds rather toxic to me, but, rather that we feel the warmth, the smiles, the feelings that go toward liking the person we have just met and would like to continue. That we ''click'' and have a feeling of mutual admiration toward one another.

why i like women over 40:
As I grow in age, I value women over 40 most of all. Here are just a few reasons why:

*A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night and ask, "What are you thinking?" She doesn't care what you think.

*If a woman over 40 doesn't want to watch the game, she doesn't sit around whining about it. She does something she wants to do, and it's usually more interesting.

*Women over 40 are dignified. They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you if they think they can get away with it.

*40+ women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it's like to be unappreciated.

*Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to a woman over 40.

*Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 40 is far sexier than her younger counterpart.

*40'ish women are forthright and honest. They'll tell you right off if you are a jerk or if you are acting like one.

*Yes, we praise women over 40 for a multitude of reasons. Unfortunately, it's not reciprocal.... ( For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed, hot woman over 40, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22-year old waitress. )

in conclusion:
life is not a mystery to be solved, rather an experience to be lived.
and....
life is much too important to be taken serously.....

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