I am a transplant to the South. I do not believe in wasting time on anything that will result in an exercise in futility. I am an average looking guy, with an above average IQ. I have a OCD about my physical hygiene. I think my friends would tell you my emphasis is upon character. No, I am not perfect, nor am I looking for perfection. I am not concerned about your age [but please, be mature], race, educational background, or employment history. I am a very optimistic person. I tolerate much, but what I won't tolerate at all is a liar or a Player. I work a lot, and I take my work serious; However, I will take time for someone I take an interest in. I will date casually until the right one comes along, then I will enter into a monogomous relationship with her if she is agreeable to it.

Ideally I would like to find a woman who has a good work ethic. Needless to say she needs to be honest. One thing I would MUCH prefer is that when it comes to intimacy SHE would be VERY aggressive, assertive, and demanding. This personality type would certainly keep my attention. I want you to know I would not rule out those who are not. Please don't misconstrue that to mean something it isn't. I am fully aware there are many men on here who are only about sex. I love it too, BUT IF I don't see a connection, I would NOT be interested. Sex is important, but does not supercede character.

To me ALL relationships must be based on the foundation of honesty, and held together by the glue of communication. To become friends is important because we need to be accepting of each other. We may not always agree, but we can always agree to disagree. Extra points if you have dated interracially.

P.S. All you who use the same lame excuses for wanting a photo right away, please don't bother to reply. It is a bit played out to sometimes still read the ridiculous refrain: "It is only fair since you have seen mine." I didn't request your photo, so you don't automatically deserve mine. Furthermore, along your line of reasoning, if I have the flu, wouldn't it only be fair that if you are going to reply to me you have the flu also??? Gimme a break! IF you want Mr. GQ, Body Beautiful, let me save you some time instead of looking at the rest of us normal or average guys on here. On any weekday I suggest you go to your local courthouse and sit like a vulture...oops, sorry, did I say that?, outside divorce court. You will find PLENTY of what you are physically looking for in there!   Send me a message!

Profession: Sales
Interests:  Shopping, Flea Markets, Garage Sales, Traveling, Camping, Movies, Music, Amusement Parks, Ping Pong, Badminton, Tennis, Chess, Spades