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Physical Appearance
Height :
5' 7"
Body type :
Average
Hair color :
Grey
Ethnicity :
White / Caucasian
About Me

I am Ivan and I live on the Island of Enchantment - Puerto Rico. Divorced and not really seeking that someone special. I am retired from the Puerto Rico TelCo. and at the moment living in my mom's house. I had been her tutor or guardian for the past eight years. She passed away during the month of April and now I am in the process of gathering papers for the inheretance and other things. She would have been 99 in June.
I have two adult children, both married and living on their own. Proud grandfather of four, three girls and one boy; ranging from 3 to 18 years old.
So if you want to talk or chat just add me as a friend or just email me.   Send me a message!

Profession: retired
Interests:  Movies, gardening, music, crafts, traveling, bowling, etc.....

Life Style
Marital Status :
Divorced
Have Children?:
Yes, they live away from home
Want Children?:
No
Smokes?:
No
Drinks?:
No
Religion :
Catholic
Testimonials
42958_6216_thumb iam4u : 04/07/08
Recently I overheard a mother and daughter in their last moments together at the airport. They had announced the departure. Standing near the security gate, they hugged and the mother said, "I love you and I wish you enough." The daughter replied, "Mom, our life together has been more than enough. Your love is all I ever needed. I wish you enough, too, Mom."



They kissed and the daughter left. The mother walked over to the window where I was seated. Standing there I could see she wanted and needed to cry. I tried not to intrude on her privacy but she welcomed me in by asking, "Did you ever say good-bye to someone knowing it would be forever?"



"Yes, I have," I replied. "Forgive me for asking, but why is this a forever good-bye?"

"I am old and she lives so far away. I have challenges ahead and the reality is - the next trip back will be for my funeral," she said.

"When you were saying good-bye, I heard you say, 'I wish you enough.' May I ask what that means?"



She began to smile. "That's a wish that has been handed down from other generations. My parents used to say it to everyone."



She paused a moment and looked up as if trying to remember it in detail and she smiled even more. "When we said, 'I wish you enough', we were wanting the other person to have a life filled with just enough good things to sustain them."

Then turning toward me, she shared the following as if she were reciting it from memory.

I wish you enough sun to keep your attitude bright.

I wish you enough rain to appreciate the sun more.

I wish you enough happiness to keep your spirit alive.

I wish you enough pain so that the smallest joys in life appear much bigger.

I wish you enough gain to satisfy your wanting.

I wish you enough loss to appreciate all that you possess.

I wish you enough hellos to get you through the final good-bye.



She then began to cry and walked away.



They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them, but then an entire life to forget them.



Send this to the people you will never forget and remember to send it back to the person who sent it to you. If you don't send it to anyone it may mean that you are in such a hurry that you have forgotten your friends.



TAKE TIME TO LIVE.....

To all my friends and loved ones,

I WISH YOU ENOUGH
15313_9117_thumb Marie55 : 11/14/07
If u love me (as a friend or more) u'll read the whole thing. What would you do if for every moment you were truly happy there would be 10 moments of sadness? What would you do if your best friend died tomorrow and you never got to tell them how you felt? So, I just wanted to say, even if I never talk to you again in my life, you are special to me and you have made a difference in my life. I look up to you, respect you, and truly cherish you. Send this to all your friends, no matter how often you talk, or how close you are, and send it to the person who sent it to you. Let old friends know you haven't forgotten them, and tell new friends you never will. Remember, everyone needs a friend. dont ever leave the one u love for the one u like, because the one u like will leave u for the one they love.
If you wake up in a red room with no windows and doors, DON'T panic.. you're just in my heart!!! Send this to all the friends you want to keep forever...

Today is Bestfriend Day. Send this to all of your friends, and me if I am one. If you get 7 back you are LOVED


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send this rose to everyone you care about including me if you care. C how many times you get this, if you get a dozen your loved
42958_6216_thumb iam4u : 05/28/07
I like YOU because YOU are nobody else on earth, You are MY friend and so much a part of life and people that it is never to far for me to see you.
Through your words on post, and the special way that YOU touch so many with your kindness and your friendship.
I call YOU my FRIEND because you call me YOUR friend,,forever and into are own darkness after this life, you my friend, are FOREVER!!
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