THE PHOTOS: I am a single parent. I show my three children: Pili (13), Yazmin (17), and Junior (21). The rest are mine.

I love people. But I don't encroach. I like my space and I leave others their space. So I have conflicts with people who are possessive, or who require that their own mate is possessive. I wish I could be more simple, really, I like simple. But I just find life to be more complicated. I think that my heart is in the right place, however. I just think that reality is often two-sided. I love different opinions, I find strength in it, but I hate arguing and losing the point.

I am a strong person and a generous person, so it is easy and satisfying to offer support to another, and encourage them. Respect is my golden rule. Love without respect is like an empty candy wrapper: You can't eat it. But loyalty is the bonding element of love. Without it, love may be a season.

I love to live and need to share my fascination and discovery. But that requires "a significant other." I've been too patient, I think. It's time.   Send me a message!

Profession: Engineering Writer
Interests:  Learning and growing; making things right; music (sing and play guitar); publish fiction and poetry; exercise; English-Spanish bilingual; fun activities