Let's see, where should I start. I know, at the beginning! LOL
I am looking for that one thing that has been elusive. That one thing that can make or break a man. That one thing that makes life and all of it's trials and pitfalls worthwhile. I am looking for passion!
I am looking to be a King but desperately need a Queen in my life.
I have had 2 serious relationships in my life, not counting high school. One was very long term with lots of passion and love. That relationship ended when she betrayed me and had a rendezvous with her original high school boyfriend after almost 30 years. That turned into her having an affair, and since I don't suffer betrayal lightly, she is no longer with me. The other relationship has come to a close. Although it was fun and rewarding, it lacked passion and true intimacy. She was in it more for security and her needs than she was for wanting me as a man. The end was amicable, but the pain will still exist.
A little about me. I'm a 50 year old Virgo. I tend to follow most of my sign's traits, but you really have to get to know me to understand me. I work alot as is my nature, usually 60 hours a week or so. I am not a party animal, nor do I hang out at bars. I am a social drinker at best and much prefer to stay at home with occasional nights out for dinner and/or a movie. I love movies and reading, pets, children, televised sports (especially pro football), at home gatherings, small parties, hosting, going to listen to bands or karaoke, etc... I do love to travel but my work schedule makes that difficult sometimes. I am not a rich man but I'm not cheap. I have been told by my significant others that I am the most romantic, kindest, gentlest and nicest man they have ever known inside the context of a relationship. I am not lazy, abusive or controlling. My emotions run deep and I am much more sensitive than I sometimes show. I am a one woman man and will not tolerate lying, stealing, cheating or betrayal. I don't believe in secrets being withheld or unspoken thoughts. A relationship is about sharing and giving and getting back something in return. No hidden agendas or provoked drama. I dislike confrontation and arguments and do not want them in my life. If you have read anything about love languages, you need to know that I require words of affirmation and physical touch. I am a very sexual person and need the same in a partner. I enjoy cuddling, caresses, kisses and hugs and will give them in abundance. I love skin to skin contact. I am an uninhibited lover and pleasing my woman is paramount. If I've left anything out, we can discuss that once we talk and get to know each other.
Who I am looking for is a lady who will pamper me and wants to get pampered in return. A sexual woman who has unmet needs and desires, or wants to explore her fantasies. One who is communicative in the bedroom, comfortable with her body, uninhibited, assertive, imaginative, enthusiastic, open minded and a little on the submissive side. I can make love or have sex, though a mixture is what I crave. I can be dominant and prefer that my partner has some dark desires she has been unable to express or explore in her current life. Nothing, short of beastiality, pedophilia or body waste, is beyond exploring if you wish. We will visit the boundaries you have, and exceed them to your delight.
I am not an Adonis, but am not unpleasant to look at. I do require that you not be a BBW, but age and race mean little, if anything, to me.
I am looking for that woman who shares a chemical attraction to me, and anything less than a mutually satisfying sex life is a deal breaker.
I need to be wanted, both in and out of the bedroom.
At this stage of my life, I refuse to sell myself short, or settle for something or someone less than I deserve.
I am looking for someone to spend the rest of my life with, someone who will appreciate everything I have to offer and needs the same.
If this sounds like you, then contact me and let's see if we click. If not, then perhaps this was entertaining reading for you in the meantime.   Send me a message!

Profession: financial mgmt
Interests:  reading, romance, passion, the 5 love languages