My ad is going to be long because I am taking this very seriously and hopefully you are as well. So fasten your seat belt... here we go!

I titled my ad this because honestly, I am just looking for one good response to come out of this ad. Do I really think I will get it? Well, to be honest...I doubt it. The reason I say that is because my luck hasn't been the greatest lately. But I am a romantic at heart and will not stop until my soulmate is in my arms.

I am looking for the woman who wants to be loved like never before. She doesn't have a laundry list of wants (tall, dark and handsome) but instead wants to fall in love with someone's heart and soul. This is important because I feel that my heart and soul are my best qualities! Does this mean that I don't want the woman I spend my life with to be attracted to me and vice versa? Nope. It's just that I want someone who wants to get to know the inside of me before just coming to raw conclusions based on the outside. I am not an unattractive man but I am not a male model by any means (nor will I ever be). I will always be the more lovable, huggable, teddy bear type of guy!

As I get older, I get pickier. I will not settle for the next person who likes me and wants me unless I have the same feelings back for her. I am past all the game-playing that goes along with dating. I don't have time or energy for that and if you do, please move on to the next ad. I am not like the average guy out there (and yes, I know you've heard that before but I am more than willing to prove it to you in time). I could tell you why I think I am different, but wouldn't it mean so much more if you decided it for yourself?

I just recently turned 38 and have never been married (only plan on doing that once!). I want to find the woman who wants to start a new chapter of her life with me. I want to make memories with her and have a very open and honest relationship right from the start. I want to find that person where there's just not enough hours in the day for her. I want to love her more tomorrow than I did today!

Yes I am very old fashioned when it comes to love and romance. I admit I love hearing love stories or watching them develop in a movie because it gives me hope that someday I will have my story to tell. Will I find her on the internet posting a crazy ad on POF? Who the hell knows. But I do know that if I stop looking...I will never find her.

I can go on and on about my interests and hobbies, etc. But that is something that we will talk about as we get to know each other. I honestly feel that it's the differences between people that are the most exciting in a new relationship.

So, call this a sneak preview as to what I am looking for. Does this sound familiar to you? Have you had some of the same thoughts? If so, please write back and send me some of your thoughts. I'm not a huge fan of email tag, so please be openminded to calling me soon (blocked #s are not a problem) because I find that a lot easier and much more personal than typing to someone. Plus, that way you get to hear my sexy voice ;-)

First Date:
I think the idea of a great date would be, well...it doesn't really matter to me what I am doing if the company is awesome. I know that sounds cheesy but it's the truth. A perfect date could be an evening stroll through a park watching the people, the kids playing, the other animals around... and then finding a spot to stop and watch the beautiful sunset... and maybe ending with a nice, sweet romantic kiss goodnight.   Send me a message!

Profession: Management
Interests:  music, theater, concerts, movies, weekend getaways, travelling our beautiful country