I'm trying to find a woman who does not own a cat because I'm allergic.

If you are in that category, please keep reading.

Hello, my name is Jay and I'm 57, tall, slender, live in San Diego, don't have any visible scars, marks, or tattoos; no outstanding misdemeanors, felonies, warrants or debts; do not throw furniture; own a car; employed; flexible; reliable; responsible; gentle; patient; resourceful; socially responsible (yes, I recycle); emotionally available; remember birthdays; and house trained.

Also enjoy: Beach walks, bookstores, coffeehouses, conversation, dancing, hiking (Cowles Mountain and Mission Trails ), KIFM Smooth Jazz (Acoustic Alchemy, Greg Adams, Marc Anthony, David Benwah, etc.), light Jazz at San Diego Museum of Art, spirituality (visiting different places of worship).

Seeking an affectionate, conversable, easily laughable, slenderish, warm woman of valor who is not afraid to love again.

Thought for the day: It doesn't matter what you're doing; it doesn't matter where you are; it doesn't matter how much money you're spending; when you are with the right person, you make your own magic.

More Thoughts: So What is a Guy For? To change a light bulb that you can't reach; to scratch your back; to take out the trash; to remove bugs and spiders; to act really silly with and not be embarrassed; to carry the groceries; to have pillow and tickle fights with; things; to cuddle with; to surprise you with roses and raspberry chocolate just because...; to hold your hand; to give you massages; to kiss your neck; to tell you how beautiful you are; to bring you breakfast in bed; to share your dreams; to comfort your fears; and to laugh with you...

e-mail/Voicemail/smoke signals/carrier pigeons welcome.

Thank you.   Send me a message!

Profession: Administrative Support
Interests:  Dancing (I keep forgetting the steps), Creative Writing, Cooking, Conversation, Coffeehouses, Bookstores, Ethnic Dining, Films/Netflix, Hikes/Walks, Music (everything from light jazz to classical to rock...), Organizing, Photography, Spirituality